India: Not a Prop Bag

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Oct 6

People who think that they are allies believe they deserve a reward for being an ally. You see it in every oppressed/minority group. I may not be a PoC, but I do experience this same problem myself in many ways. I suffer from depression, and my friends who help me through it think they deserve a fucking party for sitting with me while I'm really sad. No. You are my friend. You should do this because you want to, not for some kind of reward.

Anonymous

Yeah, I know what you mean. 

The language of “I am doing good for others, I am wonderful” is far more palatable than “I have privilege, let me use my privilege and invest in shifting power structures”.